"I don't need a man for ANYTHING"...."He's so worthless, he doesn't do....." "I don't need a man to pay for me"..."He's so f*%%$% mean, he doesn't even pay for...." "The only good men left are gay or taken".."He's just a friend though.."
By now you should figure out where this is going and if you haven't, you must have started reading this while going on or hearing on of the most common rants in recent times.
Quite frankly, I don't intend to spend a lotta time on this and I'm not gonna go into detail. I just have a few things to say.
Ladies, we're CONFUSED! What do you want? If you're gonna act and be all independent, why do you still expect the same from guys? If guys are constantly beaten with the "Independent Whip", what's gonna happen to our relationships?
Then I've heard the stupid argument of "It's his job to still do this!" So, what exactly is your job? To tell him just how independent you are and can be? To tell him you don't need him while he's trying his best? To remind him that although he just made the great effort to make you happy, you can just get up and leave his no-good ass just because you're independent?
Ladies, you have to shape up. We really can't take any more from the cat-o-nine of liberation. If a man is doing a good job, commend him, suggest what he could do to enhance, but don't bash.
Men, you have to be more reliable. Honesty is the best policy. If you can't manage the responsibility, just say so or walk away.
There's a lotta detail missing but I'm done ranting now. As you were.
